I never actually heard of orgasm denial nor had even thought of it until one day, about 2 years ago, I stumbled upon called stepfordwife.com. I was looking for ways to be more submissive and feminine and stumbled across it, never having seen the movie. And on that site, they had an interesting section that got me thinking. It detailed what they call the "Male Climax Right", what they feel is a man's right to allow/or not allow their wives to climax. To quote: "We feel that attempting to bring ourselves to climax is simply taking
away from the focus of pampering our husbands to their climax. And
that's just selfish." They went on to describe that if a husband is catered to long enough, the wife will eventually only physically respond to her husbands advances, without thought of seeking climax on her own. At first it was a small seed planted, but then it grew.
Was it a sexist and horrible motto to pick up? Maybe. Probably very. But the idea of being denied by a man was so thrilling and sexy that I couldn't let it go.
I finally told him about it, rather shyly, and stated that I might like
to try to let him be a bit in control of when I finished and when I
didn't. He seemed a bit confused I would actually give UP my rights, but after I explained the reasons, he was definitely anxious to give it a try.
The first time we tried, it was so hard to keep from climaxing (and exciting too!!) as he took his pleasure. A completely different experience. Usually it was me we were both focused on until the end when it was his turn. I can definitely say that I became a FAR more enthusiastic lover with the dull ache of wanting him throughout each day. It got to the point he was so comfortable with controlling my pleasure and going for the motto of his climax right that he began to take me into the bedroom, several times a day, push me gently to my knees and use his hands to guide my head as he took his pleasure. I was more than happy to oblige and eager to get some reward in return. Several times, in the beginning, he took me into the bedroom to tease for hours, appearing fascinated with the new power he had over me...(to be continued).
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